Un-FREAKING-believable
I KNEW IT! THE CAPS ARE DEFINATLY NEEDED IN THIS SITUATION.
I'M GOING TO SAY I TOLD YOU TO TO MYSELF ON THIS ON. BELOW IS AN EMAIL THAT WAS SENT TO ME AT 5:46 AM THIS MORNING, FROM NONE OTHER THAN THE GIRL I WAS GOING TO GO TO PSU WITH. WHO FROM THIS MOMENT ON WILL BE KNOW AS UNRELIABLE.
ENJOY!!!!!!!
I am so sorry for not being able to get back to you sooner. My life is totally caotic right now...to say the least. First of all I hope you won't totally hate me.....There is just no way I can still go up to PSU with you. This is the one thing that I have been looking forward to for how long now. I truly mean that, and it makes me sad that I can't do it anymore.....K must have accidentally thrown the tickets away when he cleaned his freaking office! I've turned this house upside down, including going through the trash and everything. I was watching ebay to see if I could still grab us another set of tickets, and I am just so in hock up to my butt in car expenses. I've got my deductable, and the rental difference.....which puts me $400 behind....which I literally do not have! My new job is totally horrible so far....I am so exhausted and depressed and upset over the job situation in itself and then the car, and then on top of all that, the tickets!!!!!!!!!! I didn't want to tell you what happened because I wanted to straighten it out first, which I know now is completely impossible.
I am so very sorry! I won't blame you if you'll hate me, because I actually hate me right now. I cried to my parents on Sat. about it....everything just really couldn't be any worse. I actually felt like calling off sick already this morning, which is NOT A GOOD SIGN! I am that tired, and only got 2 hours sleep last night.....I'm just stressed and upset....and have fought with K a few times this past week because of the tickets. Whatever you do please don't call here and leave any kind of message on my machine about this.....I couldn't stand another argument with him! I told him I felt that he owed me another set of tickets! I promise you I will pay for the $65 as soon as I get paid. If I weren't broke enough, I am still between pay checks! I already borrowed $60 from my parents for food! I am so upset. I love PSU and wanted to go up there with you in the worst way! Please forgive me Sunshine, I truly am so very sorry! I will be home alone all weekend, so if you would ever feel like still hanging out with me...I would still love that.
Ok, now seriously, do you believe her?? I don't. I wouldn't be surprised if she is going without me. I replied to her the following.
I am upset that you lost the tickets. If they turn up in the next 3 days, let me know. If it's a matter of you not being able to afford to go, then I will buy your ticket from you. If you can't find them, you actually owe me $85. It was $65 for the PJ tickets, then I gave you $20 in cash.
I wish you would have called me and personally talked to me about this and not in an email.
I guess I'll have to get over it, but I am dissappointed.
I kept it dignified. We'll see what she has to say. I changed around my whole plans for the weekend because of this. I have been planning for 2 months to go on this trip.
Opinions on how I should handle this situation? I want to call her house, I have a feeling she doesn't want me too, because she is lying to me and K (her boyfriend) will answer and tell me the truth.
I'm pissed off!
I'M GOING TO SAY I TOLD YOU TO TO MYSELF ON THIS ON. BELOW IS AN EMAIL THAT WAS SENT TO ME AT 5:46 AM THIS MORNING, FROM NONE OTHER THAN THE GIRL I WAS GOING TO GO TO PSU WITH. WHO FROM THIS MOMENT ON WILL BE KNOW AS UNRELIABLE.
ENJOY!!!!!!!
I am so sorry for not being able to get back to you sooner. My life is totally caotic right now...to say the least. First of all I hope you won't totally hate me.....There is just no way I can still go up to PSU with you. This is the one thing that I have been looking forward to for how long now. I truly mean that, and it makes me sad that I can't do it anymore.....K must have accidentally thrown the tickets away when he cleaned his freaking office! I've turned this house upside down, including going through the trash and everything. I was watching ebay to see if I could still grab us another set of tickets, and I am just so in hock up to my butt in car expenses. I've got my deductable, and the rental difference.....which puts me $400 behind....which I literally do not have! My new job is totally horrible so far....I am so exhausted and depressed and upset over the job situation in itself and then the car, and then on top of all that, the tickets!!!!!!!!!! I didn't want to tell you what happened because I wanted to straighten it out first, which I know now is completely impossible.
I am so very sorry! I won't blame you if you'll hate me, because I actually hate me right now. I cried to my parents on Sat. about it....everything just really couldn't be any worse. I actually felt like calling off sick already this morning, which is NOT A GOOD SIGN! I am that tired, and only got 2 hours sleep last night.....I'm just stressed and upset....and have fought with K a few times this past week because of the tickets. Whatever you do please don't call here and leave any kind of message on my machine about this.....I couldn't stand another argument with him! I told him I felt that he owed me another set of tickets! I promise you I will pay for the $65 as soon as I get paid. If I weren't broke enough, I am still between pay checks! I already borrowed $60 from my parents for food! I am so upset. I love PSU and wanted to go up there with you in the worst way! Please forgive me Sunshine, I truly am so very sorry! I will be home alone all weekend, so if you would ever feel like still hanging out with me...I would still love that.
Ok, now seriously, do you believe her?? I don't. I wouldn't be surprised if she is going without me. I replied to her the following.
I am upset that you lost the tickets. If they turn up in the next 3 days, let me know. If it's a matter of you not being able to afford to go, then I will buy your ticket from you. If you can't find them, you actually owe me $85. It was $65 for the PJ tickets, then I gave you $20 in cash.
I wish you would have called me and personally talked to me about this and not in an email.
I guess I'll have to get over it, but I am dissappointed.
I kept it dignified. We'll see what she has to say. I changed around my whole plans for the weekend because of this. I have been planning for 2 months to go on this trip.
Opinions on how I should handle this situation? I want to call her house, I have a feeling she doesn't want me too, because she is lying to me and K (her boyfriend) will answer and tell me the truth.
I'm pissed off!
posted by sunshine at 8:19 AM
6 Comments:
Wow. You did call it. That bites. When you are right aboit a person.
I would call and tell her off. Well, no I wouldn't. But Alecya would. Know what I mean?
I would be pissed. Call her. Ask for the money. See if you can get other tickets. Go without her.
Or, watch the game on TV (if you can) and call her every five minutes with an update and a comment about *sigh* how much fun you would have had.
I'd be hateful.
This is hard on you and your trust and confidence levels big time. I think it was great you said she owes you $85, I probably would have just let it go with her offer to pay back the $65 thinking i would be lucky to even get that. I hope whatever you end up doing with your weekend it ends up being positive in some way. Probably why you felt bad yesterday, you probably knew this was coming and it is a real bummer to have been looking forward to it for so long.
im sorry your friends bailed out on you. she is a real pain in the ass it seams. there is no sense in calling and bitching cause she will probably lie her way out of it. id be pissed about the money. try to get to the bottom of it will make you feel better. its not good to plan things with un-reliable people. if it was me id blow her off for a while and cool down. i know you were looking forward to this trip. i know how you feel. its nice to get away. maybe you will end up doing something anyways. ask her to come over and watch it on tv together and have a little party. drink and eat and have a good time. its not worth it getting all upset and mad about things like this. but you should tell her how you feel never the less. its not the end of the world, you should always have a back up plan when you do something with this girl. lol. dont stress out over it, its all her fault. MMMMMmmmmmmmmmm
Ring the bloke up and be a bitch! Go on!
Make sure you get your money back!
Her behavior is bullshit. I can't believe she's trying to guilt trip you for being upset about it, saying "I would hate me too!" I don't think there's much point in making a huge fight though. Just get your money back and don't rely on this friend again...
-h
I so dig why you are annoyed at her, I totally do. I also think she's lying about the tickets being lost, because of the not calling thing.
However, perhaps she is having some other problems or issues that have led to this.
It might be wiser to ask questions before shooting.
Hope you're ok.
xxxx
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