Stronger Day By Day.....
I've been using the last couple of days to re-process my life. What I discovered is that I'm too much of a push over. So from now on I'm going to start playing by my rules. I'm sick and tired of feeling guilty for things I shouldn't feel guilty over. If you know me at all, you would know I am pretty much as innocent as they come. Granted, I have a few fleeting moments of lunacy, but more calm than not.
Point being. I hate pissy people. I hate being in the middle of issues I shouldn't be in the middle of.
I like that the only rules I need to play by are the ones I set for myself. I won't have guilt then.
Without knowing specifics I know it's hard to follow what I writing here, but it makes sense to me.
Also, I'm sick of people writing to others in a blog. Write it for yourselves. Unless you are selling something.
I need to begin to do that. When I began a blog over a year ago. I was writing it for one person....ME.
I know now that I have a small audience (perhaps large, with no commenters)and sometimes I write for them. Not anymore. If I have nothing of value to write in here for me, than I will not write.
I may not be commenting either for a while.
I need my space......
Point being. I hate pissy people. I hate being in the middle of issues I shouldn't be in the middle of.
I like that the only rules I need to play by are the ones I set for myself. I won't have guilt then.
Without knowing specifics I know it's hard to follow what I writing here, but it makes sense to me.
Also, I'm sick of people writing to others in a blog. Write it for yourselves. Unless you are selling something.
I need to begin to do that. When I began a blog over a year ago. I was writing it for one person....ME.
I know now that I have a small audience (perhaps large, with no commenters)and sometimes I write for them. Not anymore. If I have nothing of value to write in here for me, than I will not write.
I may not be commenting either for a while.
I need my space......
posted by sunshine at 8:48 AM
6 Comments:
Is it because I didn't come to your birthday party ?!?!.
Is it over between us ?!?
R
I take it you're sick of my blog then, after all I do write for others.
if so it's a terrible shame as you were one of the first readers i had. That's when it changed, when I started writing for you, Charbs & the DoJ.
Still, we all must do what we feel is right for ourselves, eh?
R,
Good to know you still make your way around here sometimes.
Flash,
Write whatever you want to write about, this post was not directed to you. Don't take it personally.
Do you see now, how it makes others feel when you sound off cause something is bothering you and people take it out of context?
That is what I did to you yesterday, which is why I deleted my comment.
You know I love your blog, but it's getting a little to busy in there right now, and I don't feel like leaving any comments anymore on anyones blog. It's not just yours.
I'm just tired of the game. Tired of kissing everyones ass, online and at home.
You know I'll still be reading and it might kill me to not comment, but I need this for me. I will still post when necessary and I hope I haven't lost you as a reader now.
oooooooo
Of course not.
I'll be here.
My god!
What happened with you two? you come across like you had a massive bust-up?
Sunshine,
I hope everything is okay with you. I'll miss your comments as I've always valued your advice and never viewed it as "ass-kissing." If it's not to come to me via blogger, I guess I'll have to get it over the phone. God knows, I could use enough advice. I seem to make one stupid move after another.
Lol!
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