I've seen Sunny Days.....
Ok, this is more upbeat, I think.
Anyway I've been over thinking a lot in the last two weeks. I've been going over my personal life, my finacial life, my past, my present, my future. It's been a lot to think about and has given me a lot to worry about, but I'm feeling a little better about things today.
I made a decision to not got to NYC this year. Sorry Hyde.
I might take that money instead and spend it on joining a gym.
Also, It occured to me the other day of all the men that I've affected, and how they have responded to me. I think I might share that with you now.
I have a very good friend, someone I've known since I was 13 years old. We are like brother and sister at this point. We have never had any kind of physical contact other than a hug. We were very close from age 13 to 16, then kept in occasional touch for the next 5 or so years. Then became closer again from 21 to age 24, he attended my wedding, then we lost touch for a few years. Since the age of about 27 we have been in constant contact, not letting more than 3 months go by without talking. After I left my husband, he was in a serious relationship with a girl, they were living together. One day he called me up, drunk, and confessed his love for me, saying he had always had a crush on me, but he knew we were like brother and sister, but told me he would dump his girlfriend if I was willing to give it a try.
I politely explained our relationship to him and layed it out nice and simple, he totally understood and it hasn't changed anything about our relationship. He and I still get together about once every 3 months for drinks and a chat and we talk about once a month on the phone. He really is a sweetheart and I hope he finds a good girl someday, unfortunatly for him, it's not me.
I have other stories, but I'm at work, so they will have to wait for the next post.
Anyway I've been over thinking a lot in the last two weeks. I've been going over my personal life, my finacial life, my past, my present, my future. It's been a lot to think about and has given me a lot to worry about, but I'm feeling a little better about things today.
I made a decision to not got to NYC this year. Sorry Hyde.
I might take that money instead and spend it on joining a gym.
Also, It occured to me the other day of all the men that I've affected, and how they have responded to me. I think I might share that with you now.
I have a very good friend, someone I've known since I was 13 years old. We are like brother and sister at this point. We have never had any kind of physical contact other than a hug. We were very close from age 13 to 16, then kept in occasional touch for the next 5 or so years. Then became closer again from 21 to age 24, he attended my wedding, then we lost touch for a few years. Since the age of about 27 we have been in constant contact, not letting more than 3 months go by without talking. After I left my husband, he was in a serious relationship with a girl, they were living together. One day he called me up, drunk, and confessed his love for me, saying he had always had a crush on me, but he knew we were like brother and sister, but told me he would dump his girlfriend if I was willing to give it a try.
I politely explained our relationship to him and layed it out nice and simple, he totally understood and it hasn't changed anything about our relationship. He and I still get together about once every 3 months for drinks and a chat and we talk about once a month on the phone. He really is a sweetheart and I hope he finds a good girl someday, unfortunatly for him, it's not me.
I have other stories, but I'm at work, so they will have to wait for the next post.
posted by sunshine at 9:41 AM
4 Comments:
You say it hasn't changed anything between you and him? WOW! I don't know.
Hey - look at you! Opening up and sharing. Thank you very much. You're a lucky girl that he was so understanding.
X and O
AG
It sounds like it's a good friendship.
:(
I will miss you! I still owe you a visit though.
-h-
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